The holidays are a time for turkey, togetherness and meaningful (and sometimes difficult) family discussions. Gathering around the table this holiday season offers an opportunity to reflect on what binds people together: shared memories, traditions, and, for many families, a connection to the land. For heirs property owners and beginning farmers, holidays can be the perfect time to plant the seeds of important conversations about your family’s future.

Why the Holidays?
The holiday season brings families together, creating a space for open dialogue. Discussing heirs property or farm succession can feel daunting, but the holiday spirit of gratitude and collaboration can create a positive environment for addressing even complex topics. Preserving your family’s legacy starts with honest, heartfelt communication.

Setting the Table for the Conversation
Before diving deep into legal structures or long-term land management, focus on creating an inviting atmosphere. Here are some tips to help you ease into the topic:

— Start with a Gratitude Circle. Go around the table and ask everyone to share what they’re thankful for or their favorite thing about the holidays, including the family land or farming legacy. This can transition into discussions about preserving that legacy for future generations.
— Use a Soft-Launch Approach. Introduce the topic casually rather than jumping straight into serious talk.“I was reading about how families can use the land they inherit to start new farming ventures. Have y’all ever thought about what we’d like to do with ours?”
“Did you know there are ways we could legally protect our land for future generations? It’s something worth exploring together.”
— Make It Personal. Share your reasons for wanting to address these topics. Whether it’s preventing disputes, maximizing land use, or ensuring the property remains in the family, your sincerity can encourage others to open up.
Preparing for Hesitation
Not everyone will feel ready to discuss estate planning or property issues, especially over mashed potatoes and gravy! Be patient and respectful. If someone resists the conversation, acknowledge their feelings and suggest revisiting the topic when the timing feels better.

Keeping It Light but Focused
Balance is key. Keep the discussion lighthearted while not downplaying its importance. There are a few ways to do this:

— Share a funny or heartwarming memory about the property.
— Highlight how other families have successfully turned heirs property into an opportunity rather than a burden.
— Resources to Support Family
Sometimes, families need more than a holiday chat to move forward. The Alabama Heirs Property Alliance offers workshops, tools and expert guidance to help families understand their legal options and make informed decisions. Don’t hesitate to reach out for support to turn conversations into action.

The Gift of Planning
This holiday season, give your family the gift of planning. A well-thought-out strategy for heirs property or beginning farming ventures can ensure your family’s land continues to be a source of pride and opportunity for future generations.

As you gather this holiday season, remember your family’s shared vision for the future is valuable. Let the conversation begin!

More Information
For more information or resources, visit www.aces.edu/go/heirsproperty or contact Jamie Mardis of the Alabama Heirs Property Alliance at jcm0235@auburn.edu or 334-734-0121. We’re here to help your family navigate the journey together.